Teaching Kids About God’s Seasons

Teaching Kids About God's Seasons - Parenting Like HannahKids get a lot of exposure when they are young to God’s seasons of summer, spring, fall and winter. Yet, we rarely teach kids about the other seasons God sometimes gives us and always guides us through. Now if you are like me, the first time I heard about these other seasons, I was a bit puzzled.

I was in a Bible study and a friend shared about the season she was in and how she would be thankful when the next season arrived. She went on to explain that just like the stages children go through as they grow, God either provides and/or guides us through the various seasons of our lives.

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Preparing Christian Kids for Dating

Preparing Christian Kids for Dating - Parenting Like HannahIf you aren’t there in your parenting journey yet, you need to be prepared for the dating years of your kids. By the time they are ready to date, you have seen and heard every possible horror story imaginable. You hit your knees a lot praying your children have wisdom and God guides them in their choices. The decisions they make while dating can impact the rest of their lives. Yet most Christian parents have done little if anything to prepare their kids for dating.

Oh, most have the “date a Christian” and “wait until you are married” chats, but few if any parents give real life helpful advice. No wonder so many kids flounder and make really bad choices. That’s why I was interested in the new book The Chase: Trusting God with Your Happily Ever After by Kyle and Kelsey Kupecky.

The Kupecky’s are a young married couple who want to share with young people what they learned about godly dating and marriage. They have a bit of the cool factor as he is a Christian musician and she’s an actress with a couple of movie credits. The book has a very comfortable style as they ping pong back and forth telling about their dating lives before they met and once they met. They share the mistakes they made (nothing horrible really) and the lessons they learned along the way.

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Teaching Kids to Spread Hope and Joy

Teaching Kids to Spread Hope and Joy - Parenting Like HannahHope and joy are a huge part of Christianity. The hope of an eternity spent in Heaven can give Christians joy even in this fallen world. Others are often drawn to God when they see the hope and joy in our lives. Your children can learn to spread hope and joy as they go through life. They don’t have to be fake or even have a naturally bubbly personality to do so.

One of the best ways to raise children who spread hope and joy is to teach them to be encouragers. This is more than just a cheerleader. An encourager celebrates the good times with people, helps them pick themselves up after the bad times and helps them find the path God has for them.

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Helping Teens Serve Others Effectively

Helping Teens Serve Effectively - Parenting Like HannahMy work with Teach One Reach One (Parenting Like Hannah’s parent ministry) has me working with a lot of urban ministries and mission fields. When I meet a new group, one of the first things I do is ask what challenges they face. Inevitably, one of the things I hear is the groups that come in to serve their ministry are not well prepared to help.

While they acknowledge the groups mean well, often they leave a wake of problems instead of service behind them. There are numerous reasons for this, but one is that the groups come in “knowing” what the people they are about to serve need. While it’s true we all need to be loved and to hear and understand God’s message of redemption, most of the things these groups “know” about the people they are about to serve is little to nothing.

There are a lot of ways to help teens learn to minister to others more effectively, but one of the most important is teaching them to ask good questions and really listen to the answers. Seems a little crazy when you are taking your teen or a group of teens to go serve in a soup kitchen. Obviously, the people are hungry. That’s why it’s a soup kitchen. The reality is so much more complex than that.

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Christian Moms Meet Change

CHristian Moms Meet Change - Parenting Like HannahMy high school graduation was wonderful. My speech went well. I loved celebrating our graduation with tons of good friends and family. I was so excited about attending college that August, I could barely stand it. Yet that night, I cried myself to sleep.

Have you ever wondered why some of the times in your life when you were so excited and happy, you still had an overwhelming urge to cry? It’s because often those times also mean change. Sometimes the change is small and sometimes it is large, but change is a huge part of life. When you become a parent, your life seems like it changes daily and some of the changes can almost knock you off your feet.

I was interested to read the new book, Girl Meets Change: Truths to Carry You through Life’s Transitions by Kristen Strong. As a military wife, Strong is no stranger to change. As someone also born with a low tolerance for change, Strong struggled to learn how to deal with the many changes her husband’s career demanded. The result is a very practical book to help others struggling with change.

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