Kids, Baptism and the Age of Accountability

Kids, Baptism and the Age of Accountability - Parenting Like HannahActs 2:38 is a verse I have heard quoted thousands and thousands of times in my lifetime. “Repent and be baptized, every one of you, in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. And you will receive the gift of the Holy Spirit.” (NIV) When I place this scripture beside all of the conversion accounts in the New Testament and the meaning of the original Greek word for baptism, two things become clear. Baptism by immersion for the remission of sins is clearly a command and the person who is baptized must understand and be capable of repenting.

In Christian circles, the age when a person is capable of understanding sin and repenting of it so they can be baptized for the remission of their sins has become known as the “age of accountability”. Unfortunately, the Bible doesn’t give us a specific age when this accountability kicks in, although it does tell us it exists.

Recently, I found the most interesting scripture while I was reading my Bible. “Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign: The virgin will conceive and give birth to a son, and will call him Immanuel. He will be eating curds and honey when he knows enough to reject the wrong and choose the right, for before the boy knows enough to reject the wrong and choose the right, the land of the two kings you dread will be laid waste.” (Isaiah 7:14-16 NIV Emphasis mine.)

Clearly this is a prophecy about Jesus, the coming Messiah. What to me is really interesting is the part I italicized. Evidently, even Jesus had a point in his childhood when he did not know enough “to reject the wrong and choose the right”. In fact the verses go on to imply, Jesus reached that age earlier than most (if not all) because he was still eating curds and honey when he reached that “age of accountability”.

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Modern Manners for Christian Teens

Modern Manners for Christian Teens - Parenting Like HannahWhen your children are in their teens and twenties, you realize something important. All of those manners you tried to teach them can make the difference in how successful they are in their careers. Most parents don’t think about that as they proclaim “Keep your mouth closed when you chew” for the millionth time. Yet as someone who has participated in hiring decisions, how your children use their manners (or lack thereof) in the interview process can be the very thing which tips the hiring decision.

As a graduate of the “Miss Manners” generation, I was interested to read a “modern manners” book when offered the opportunity to review Modern Manners: Tools to Take You to the Top.
Imagine my surprise when the book arrived and I realized it was penned by Liv Tyler and her grandmother. Somehow the daughter of the Aerosmith rocker had become an expert in etiquette. My expectations for the book, admittedly unfairly, sank a bit.

Fortunately, Ms. Tyler’s grandmother did an excellent job training her granddaughter. The book was easy to understand and covered all of the basics. Etiquette books can become overwhelming from the sheer volume of information they feel the need to cover. The authors of this book did a great job in picking the most common situations and mistakes to cover and eliminating some of the more esoteric rules and situations.

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Using Grocery Stores to Teach Kids Empathy

Using Grocery Stores to Teach Kids Empathy - Parenting Like HannahWhen I was single, I lived in neighborhoods which were beginning to gentrify. My jobs were in more upscale areas, and I often went to the grocery store in the upscale area near my office. Other times, I shopped in a grocery store of the same chain, but in my neighborhood – which was still primarily a poor area of town.

Over time I began to notice something interesting. Although both stores had the advertised specials and many of the same foods, there was a noticeable difference in some of the items they chose to carry in large quantities and the extra sale items. Unfortunately, in the cases of the gentrifying neighborhoods, extra sales were often on junk food while in pricier areas more exotic fruits, vegetables and leaner cuts of meat were more often on sale.

I learned a lot from noticing these differences in the grocery stores. Not just about how the stores chose to do business, but I also got to know other customers, workers and learned about some foods I might have passed by in the tiny corner in which they were placed in the more upscale store. In the gentrifying store, these same items were available in large, inexpensive quantities and there were many helpful people to teach me how to choose and prepare the items so I could enjoy them.

Over the years, we have learned one of the best places to go when you are on vacation – particularly in another region or country- is the local grocery store. You and your children can learn a lot by being observant as you walk around the aisles. Here are some of my favorites:

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Kids, Weather and God

Kids, Weather and God - Parenting Like HannahAtlanta is weather obsessed. Television programming is scuttled multiple times a year for our local stations to give us minute by minute weather updates for hours on end. Whether it is snow, a tornado or a hurricane, we watch the skies and our televisions carefully to be prepared for whatever happens.

Did you know it is easy to combine teaching your child the Bible and helping them learn about subjects like weather at the same time? It can be a lot of fun and increase their Bible knowledge and faith while helping them expand their intellectual knowledge. Weather is a particularly fun subject to use with this kind of learning.

Look online (Check our companion site www.teachonereachone.org) or get some books from your local library on weather and weather experiments. One of the most fun things you can do is build some basic weather tracking instruments, learn about clouds and other weather predictors and then see if your kids can predict the weather better than your local forecaster. (As we all know the chances are pretty great they can on most days!)

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Christian Kids and Role Models

Christian Kids and Role Models - Parenting Like HannahA trip to Monticello as a young girl led me to years of fascination with Thomas Jefferson. In the elementary education version of his life, Jefferson was a hero. A man who not only penned the Declaration of Independence, became President of the United States and greatly increased the size of our country, but also was well read, an inventor and travelled to places I dreamed of seeing. I wrote many a paper in my school years about his life.

As an adult, I had access to more of the story of the life of Thomas Jefferson. While he did indeed do many wonderful things, he had many personal issues. From uncontrolled spending and debt to hidden affairs to writing his own version of the Bible omitting any parts he didn’t like (and I won’t even discuss how a graduate of WIlliam and Mary could start UVa!), Jefferson was not the most godly example of how to live your life.

That’s the problem with human role models. In the end, they are still human and sinful. Many a person has had their faith shattered because their faith in a person was destroyed when their hidden (or not so hidden) sins came to life. Yet as a parent, you want to point your child to people who have made godly decisions in today’s world. It helps our kids understand how to put biblical concepts into practice in their lives. So how do you give your child the positive aspects of having role models without exposing them to situations which could later shake their faith?

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