Teaching Kids to Look Beyond the Obvious

Teaching Kids to Look Beyond the Obvious - Parenting Like HannahA few months ago experts found evidence that behind an average battle scene painted by a man named Vasari (who is actually famous for his writing, not art) is a work by Leonardo da Vinci. For centuries now, people have walked by this average mural not realizing a fabulous masterpiece had been painted over to create the current painting. Someone though saw something others missed and did the research to find the masterpiece hidden below what is obvious to the eye.

Most of us go through life like those thousands of people who walked by that painting for centuries. We see only what is visible to the eye – and sometimes even miss that opportunity. If we don’t teach our kids to break that cycle and learn to look below what is on the surface, their lives will not be nearly as rich and godly as they could be.

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Great Christian Parenting Magazine

Great Christian parenting Magazine - Parenting Like HannahThere are several parenting magazines in the marketplace. Some are actually fairly helpful. The problem is none of the secular parenting magazines really address parenting issues that are of special importantance to Christian parents. Fortunately, there is a great magazine that totally focuses on helping us.

Thriving Family is a magazine focusing on Christian parenting and marriages. It has lots of short, practical articles that only take a few minutes to read. In addition to the feature articles each issue, the magazine contains regular features on family stages (dealing with the issues of children in various age groups), family media, family faith and family living.

The magazine is bi-monthly (6 issues a year) and the latest issue covered topics like anger management for kids, overcoming selfishness in marriage, toddler modesty, retooling timeouts, solution for messy rooms, logical faith (for teens) and much more.

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Teaching Kids Reasons For God’s Commands

Teaching Kids Reasons For God's Commands - Parenting Like HannahHave you ever caught yourself saying “Because I’m the parent and I said so” to your kids? If you haven’t yet, you probably will at least once before your kids reach adulthood. There is actually value to teaching your kids to obey for the sake of obeying, especially when they are young. Having children who will immediately comply with your commands can literally save their lives.

In some ways, God too expects us to obey because “He is God and He said so”. The great thing about God though is that He really wants us to understand His incredible love for us. He wants us to realize His commands are in our best interest. He wants us to realize obeying His commands is not just about obeying God, but because it will also give us the best possible life in this fallen world.

Your kids especially need to understand why God gave us some of His commands. Sometimes the scriptures tell us exactly why God wants us to do something. Think about when the Israelites wanted a king. God made sure they understood that even though he would grant their request, putting a person in a position with that much authority would cause many problems. God even made sure Samuel listed all of the future problems the people would have because they had chosen a king to be their ruler instead of God. A quick look at history after that will quickly confirm all of those problems happened and still happen today with earthly rulers.

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Fun Activity for Teaching Kids to Follow God’s Commands

Fun Activity for Teaching Kids to Follow God's Commands -Parenting Like HannahHave you ever tried to put a piece of furniture together without the instructions? You might be successful for a time, but at some point you will find if you don’t follow the instructions exactly as written, you have a mess on your hands.

Your kids need to learn God gives us commands for a reason. He knows what is best for us and has given us a set of instructions in the Bible for living that best life. If your kids choose to ignore or change the instructions and do their own thing, they will usually end up with a mess on their hands.

There is a great, fun activity to make the point to your kids. Often young people will think God’s commands are for later when they are “old and boring”. Or they think, they can tweak them here and there to make God’s commands more “fun” for them. They may think they can pick and choose which commands they obey without any consequences.

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Teaching Kids About Godly Dreams

Teaching Kids About Godly Dreams - Parenting Like HannahWhat were your childhood dreams? Did you want to be an astronaut? What changed your mind? How do you know if changing your mind was what God wanted for your life or if He had another plan you missed somehow?

These are extremely important questions, not only for your life, but also for the lives of your children. The God who cares enough to know the number of hairs on their head, who sent His Son to die on the cross for their sins, and who tells us multiple times in scripture He will guide their steps (Proverbs 3:5-6, Isaiah 30:21, James 1:5-6 and many, many more) – must surely care about where they go to school, whom they date and marry, their career choices and their ministry choices. Our children have free will, but how much more rich and fulfilling their lives will be if they can align their decisions with what God knows is best for them?!

So what do your kids need to know about having godly dreams? There are a lot of things they will learn as they go through the process, but here are some I have learned over the years:

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