The Sluggard Christian Parent

The Sluggard Christian Parent - Parenting Like HannahSluggard is one of those great Bible words we don’t use in regular conversation very often. Yet, the Bible actually has quite a bit to say about sluggards. As someone who considers myself a person who accomplishes more than most in the course of an average day, I never thought much about sluggards.

That is until I read a quote by author Leighton McCoy. “I chose to believe that whatever I didn’t do as a parent would be covered by what God would do as the perfect parent and therefore I didn’t really have to worry too terribly much when my children veered off course. I was wrong. I thought this was childlike faith, but now I know it was spiritual laziness.” Ouch!

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Nip It In The Bud Christian Parenting

Nip It In The Bud Christian Parenting - Parenting Like HannahIt happens to me every single year. We have a large yard with lots of flower borders and pine islands. Every summer I promise myself that the next spring I will get out before the weeds and do all of the things you are supposed to do so you aren’t weeding all summer long. Inevitably life gets in the way and I don’t get out there until the weeds have made their appearance everywhere. I know if I could ever nip the weed situation in the bud, my summers would involve a lot less yard work. For some reason though, I never nip it in the bud and find myself doing a lot of extra and potentially unnecessary work.

Christian Parenting is the same way. It starts much younger than people think. You can begin training a child to have appropriate behavior when most kids are about one year old (when your child can respond to a simple command – this age will vary from child to child). It amazes me how quickly toddlers will begin testing your limits. Their hearts are just beginning to develop and aren’t necessarily rebellious, but those temptations and negative behaviors are already there.

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New:Free Printable Parenting Resources

New:Free Printable Parenting Resources - Parenting Like HannahEver wish you could get some of our tips in a format you could put in your Bible, hang on your fridge or share with another parent? Our first free printable parenting resources are now online! We have already posted Bible bookmarks with tips for reading the Bible with kids on one side and the best books of the Bible to read with kids on the other. Or check out our insert for prayer journals with tips for praying with kids. We even have tip sheets on topics like managing sibling conflict or tips for raising loving brothers and sisters.

Under our printable parenting resources, you will also find our first resources translated into Spanish! We hope to eventually have every resource in this category translated into multiple languages. This will allow you to share the resources with parents who may not speak English fluently.

Keep checking back as we hope to add new resources each month. Don’t see a tip sheet for a topic important to you? Contact us and we may just add it to our list of topics in development.

We would love for you to share these resources with everyone you know. Post links on social media, email the link to friends or share it in your church bulletin or program newsletter. While you are sharing our parenting resources, you might also want to let others know about our blog and all of the resources for volunteers working with children that can be found on our parent website Teach One Reach One. So take a look around and let us know what other resources would help you on your parenting journey.

Parenting and Communication Skills

Parenting and Communication Skills - Parenting Like HannahIf you listen to most parents talk for very long, it becomes obvious many problems in families are actually communication problems. If you have ever said things like “They don’t seem to hear me” or “No matter what I say she gets mad” or almost any sentence involving listening or speaking, you may have communication issues too.

I was intrigued by the title of a new book I was offered to review. You Can’t Text a Tough Conversation by Mike Bechtle attempts to teach basic communication skills to a generation who has spent a lifetime condensing speech into a text. Although in some ways a primer, it had enough great reminders and new information to be helpful to even a somewhat practiced communicator.

The author breaks down the book into four main sections. The first basically makes his case for the need for teaching and learning how to communicate well. In the second section, he gives six tools for healthy conversations and six skills needed in the third section. The final section he uses to more or less put all of the pieces together into some general thoughts on communication circles, technology and more.

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Teaching Kids About Satan

Teaching Kids About Satan - Parenting Like HannahWhen is the last time you heard someone in church mention Satan or Hell? If you are like most Christians, it may have been years. Gone are the days of the “fire and brimstone” sermon. I don’t recommend we go back to those days, but I do think we need to stop ignoring the fact Satan exists. More importantly, we need to teach our children about him and his ways.

“Be on your guard, stand firm in the faith. Be courageous. Be Strong.” (NIV I Corinthians 16:13) Have you ever noticed there are quite a few verses in the Bible that tell us to be watchful or be on guard? Ever wondered of whom we were supposed to be watchful? I think there is a strong argument to be made that at least some of those verses are cautioning us to be watchful against Satan and his tricks.

There are some things about Satan your children are probably not hearing in church (if he is even mentioned at all). It is vitally important your children understand who Satan is and how he works. They can’t be watchful of something they don’t know exists. They also need to know his tricks, so they can guard the weak spots he will attack.

So what are some of the things you need to teach your kids about Satan?

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