One of the top mysteries for many parents is how to get their kids to talk to them. Oh, their kids are respectful enough to answer questions when asked. It’s just that the vast majority of the answers are one word or perhaps even a grunt. Some parents just give up and hope their kids will eventually grow up to be adults who have wonderful conversations with their parents.
To be effective as a Christian parent though, you have to know what your child is not only thinking, but also what he is holding in his heart. You can try to discipline behaviors and guess at any potential heart or faith issues. Honestly though, the best way to really help your child grow in his faith and develop a godly heart is for him to share with you what he is thinking. Which brings us back to the original problem.
Fortunately, there are ways to get your children to talk to you. Even about the important things in life. There are certain types of questions that are more likely to get your child talking than others. Before I share them though, you need to keep a few things in mind.