“What were you thinking?” “What did you expect would happen?” “Didn’t you know that was due tomorrow?” Many of the most popular parenting questions are actually asked because we have forgotten to teach our kids how to be proactive rather than reactive. We may address some of the various skills of a proactive person, but we need to learn how to teach the heart attitude of being proactive.
Many of the negative consequences our kids will experience (and frankly that we see in the world today) are because people usually react to a situation rather than already having a plan in place should that experience ever happen. Unfortunately, many knee jerk reactions made in the heat of the moment result in decisions that are neither wise nor godly. Most of us don’t really think clearly under pressure and the lack of time won’t allow most of us the luxury of going through all of the steps necessary to make a wise choice.