Is Your Child Repackaging God?

Is Your Child Repackaging God - Parenting lIke HannahHave you ever bought an item for years and then the company suddenly repackaged it? Often it’s because the company wants consumers to view their product differently. They know they can often change the way a product is packaged and consumers will view the product differently – even if the product itself has not changed at all.

One of the most dangerous things people do is try to repackage God. Studies have shown our brains are wired in such a way that we try to make God fit into the image we want to have of Him – whether or not it even remotely resembles who God really is and what He truly wants from us. Your kids – just like the rest of us – will be susceptible to this tendency unless you prepare them.

The problem with your kids repackaging God into their image of Him is twofold. First, this new image they have created of God may not resemble God at all. Secondly, they may be so focused on shaping God into the image they want to have of Him, they forget to reflect God’s true image – which they have now possibly altered to the point that they are merely reflecting themselves to the world – not God.

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Fun Service Project For Kids: Hygiene Kits

Fun Service Project For Kids - Hygiene Kits - Parenting Like HannahAfter my last dental appointment, my hygienist gave me a free toothbrush, toothpaste and floss. A recent stay at a hotel and they wanted us to take the little soap and shampoo in the room. A friend gave me a decorative soap that has been sitting in its original wrapper in a drawer for months. Sound familiar?

What if your kids collected all of the miscilaneous hygiene items in your home and the homes of family and friends and created hygiene kits? Many organizations who work with the poor, refugees, homeless or minister to the very poor in other countries can get fairly easy access to donated food and clothing. What is often more difficult for them to collect are hygiene items, cleaning supplies and baby supplies. Your kids can put together some hygiene kits and donate them to ministries and organizations who can share them with those who need them most.

Each kit can be items placed in a plastic bag. They can have fun using decorative ones, but make sure they are transparent to help the shelters and recipients. Each bag doesn’t have to have the exact same items. Have your kids make fliers or send emails and texts asking people to gather up all of their free samples and items they are saving for some day, but haven’t used (and probably won’t). great items are toothbrushes, toothpaste, floss, soap, lotion, shampoo, conditioner – really any personal hygiene item except razors (some shelters may have rules against them). Deodorant is not usually given away, but some friends and family may be willing to purchase and donate them too.

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Nine Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage

Nine Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage - Parenting Like HannahIf you minister to people and listen to their stories for very long, you will discover there are many people whose lives were shattered by their parents’ divorce. For many, the pain is still so real you can almost touch it – even years later. The longer I live, the more I agree one of the most important gifts parents can give their children is for their own marriage to be strong.

Which is why I almost always jump at the chance to review a book on marriage. I want you to have every possible tool at your disposal to strengthen your marriage, not just for you and your spouse but also for your children. Nine Thoughts That Can Change Your Marriage: Because a Great Relationship Doesn’t Happen by Accident by Sheila Wray Gregoire may just give you the help you need to change the dynamic in your marriage.

Gregoire suggests the reader adopt nine new ways about thinking about her spouse and her marriage that could strengthen almost any marriage. Written to women, it would be easy to dismiss this book as yet another Christian book counseling women to submit and smile to be a good Christian wife. To be fair, Gregoire does believe in submission but not in the way some Christian men have used the word to browbeat and even abuse their wives over the years.

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Five Tips For “Being” a Christian Parent

Five Tips For Being a Christian Parent - Parenting Like HannahParenting books and articles are full of lists of things to do to be a great parent. The assumption is that if you can check everything off of the list, you will have children who grow into becoming wonderful, successful adults. Christian publications are not immune either, as you can see by all of the tips in this blog over the years.

People love lists – especially if those lists can help them be a better person or in this case parent. They come with the promise that if you can just complete the list, you will achieve your goal. In Christian parenting, the stakes are even higher. We feel an added burden to raise children who worship and serve God all the days of their lives. It would be wonderful if someone could guarantee us if we checked things off of some list our kids would be productive Christians.

Here’s the secret no list writer will tell you. They are successful not because of the list, but because the list represents who they are at their core. They can work the list and make it work because the list represents things they do because the goal of the list is so important to them it has become their identity.

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God is GOOD Challenge for Kids and Teens

The "God is GOOD" Challenge for Kids and TeensIt doesn’t really matter if you are reading this post the day it went on the website or days, months or even years later. The world is filled with evil and lots of people who are more than willing to act in incredibly evil ways. Sometimes, they conduct their evil under the pretense of it being what God wanted them to do.

Yet God is GOOD. The Bible tells us all good things come from God. It also tells us “In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.” (Matthew 5:16 ESV)

In the process of teaching our kids everything in the Bible about how they should behave, we sometimes forget to tell them their purpose as a Christian. We are to worship and obey God and serve Him by serving others and sharing our faith. Those last two things are what the scripture in Matthew is all about. Serving others allows us to point them to God and share His message with them.

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