Being a mom is a challenging job. There usually isn’t a training program or quarterly reviews. You may get an occasional complement on how well your children behave, but it’s usually two seconds before they have a melt down in public. On good days, it’s easy enough to convince yourself you are better than average and on your bad days, you probably feel like you belong in some secret mother Hall of Shame.
Sometimes, it helps to step out of your own parenting journey for a bit and walk in another mother’s shoes. It can give you perspective, hope or maybe just the peace of realizing every mother struggles from time to time. Life may provide you opportunities to interact with other moms and hear their stories. For others, your best chance is to read a book written by another mom.
I was interested when given the chance to review Sand in My Sandwich: And Other Motherhood Messes I’m Learning to Love
The great thing about Perry’s book is that she is honest about how stressful her life has been. There isn’t an attempt to sugarcoat things or make readers believe that faith and prayer will somehow magically “cure” all of life’s problems. In fact, she reminds readers the “God won’t give you more than you can handle” saying isn’t in the Bible at all, but is a misquote of a totally different concept. Life can give you more than you can handle. The difference is the Christian has hope and strength in God.
If you are struggling in your parenting journey or want to develop more empathy for other mothers, you may appreciate Perry sharing her story. Personally, I was a tad disappointed. I guess I expected more helpful tips or perhaps she was someone who was able to find humor in almost any situation. Although there were some general ideas of faith, strength and humor, the book is more of a recounting of everything that has happened on her journey. While it was interesting, it wasn’t riveting. Her insights, while helpful, didn’t feel particularly insightful or life-changing.
If you are struggling in your parenting journey or want to develop empathy for other moms, this book may do the trick. While I appreciate the courage it took to share her story, I think ultimately Perry might have shared more specific advice or tips to make the book more helpful, but sometimes the best help comes from knowing you’re not alone.
This book was given to me for free in exchange for my honest review. An affiliate link is included in the post for your convenience.
Children love holidays. There is something about the preparations, the excitement, the food and very often the presence of extended family and friends that make holidays special. Yet in many churches and Christian homes, children never learn much about the holidays in the Old Testament. These holidays can hold so much history and meaning in them for Christian children today. Introducing them to your kids can add another rich layer to their faith development.
It happened again today. The morning shows on television were trumpeting the results of some new study “proving” the quality of the time spent with children is more important than the quantity of time. These sorts of reports and studies circulate periodically, reassuring over scheduled, working parents their children will be “just fine” with the few minutes of time a day most spend with them.
If you have watched your child write his first research paper or study for an important exam, you have probably noticed some time management issues. There are so many more interesting and fun things to do than to spend several hours studying or writing weeks before something is due. You may have resorted to constant nagging or cringed as your teen flipped into panic mode at the last minute.
Recently I read about a very disturbing study. A group of people were asked what they would do if they witnessed someone making a racist joke, taunting someone or displaying overt racism in some way. Almost to a person, everyone said they would speak up for what was right.