Free Christian Parenting Resources

Free Christian Parenting Resources - Parenting Like HannahYou may not be aware that Parenting Like Hannah is actually a branch of a larger ministry, Teach One Reach One. Recently highlighted by the Points of Light Foundation in its Daily Points of Light Award, Teach One Reach One has resources parents can use, too.

Under the parenting tab on the Teach One Reach One website, you will find links to a free baptism study (with leader’s guide), how to adapt Teach One Reach One activities for families and a link back to Parenting Like Hannah. You can also take a look at the parenting workshops you can bring to your church or community. There is even a link to something we are very excited about developing.

In the near future, we hope to have parenting booklets on a variety of topics – all written at a lower elementary reading level. We want every parent to have access to basic Christian parenting principles written in an easy to understand format. Eventually, we hope to have all of these resources translated into multiple languages.

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Christian Parents and the Quality Versus Quantity Time Debate

Christian Parents and the Quality Versus Quantity Time DebateIt happened again today. The morning shows on television were trumpeting the results of some new study “proving” the quality of the time spent with children is more important than the quantity of time. These sorts of reports and studies circulate periodically, reassuring over scheduled, working parents their children will be “just fine” with the few minutes of time a day most spend with them.

It’s not that I disagree with the study in theory. Even before smart phones and computers, there were many parents who were in the same house or even the same room with their children for many hours a day without meaningful interaction with them. On the other hand, I always wonder what the standard for “just fine” really is, not just in these studies, but in God’s eyes.

One of my favorite parenting verses is Deuteronomy 11:19 “Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” (NIV) It sounds like God sets up a parenting expectation of quality and quantity time. God is calling parents to raise children equipped not just to obey God, but to glorify Him, serve others and share their faith. In today’s world, that is not as easy to do as one would hope.

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Encouragement for Christian Moms

Encouragement for Christian MomsIf you have been a mom for very long, you understand it is one of the greatest blessings God can give you. That doesn’t mean life is perfect. You wouldn’t trade those little (or big) bundles of joy for anything, but there are some days when you want to jump on the nearest airplane to Hawaii.

Mothering can discourage you in ways nothing else can. Especially if you realize the enormous responsibility that accompanies the amazing blessing of raising children. Discouragement, loneliness and the mom blues can often pass on their own with something as simple as a dandelion and hug from your little one.

Other times, you need some adult encouragement. Hopefully, you are working on building your support team of Christian moms. On those days when you can’t tap into a personal conversation, reading a book of encouragement can help. Some moms prefer parenting books while others prefer devotional books.

I was curious when I was offered the opportunity to review Blessings for the Morning: Prayerful Encouragement to Begin Your Day by Susie Larson. Billed as a book of blessings, it contains ninety-eight different entries. Each entry has a scripture printed on one page and her blessing for the day on the facing page. Although not specifically written for moms, the blessings definitely cover areas which would encourage any woman whether or not she is a mother.

The blessings read like affirmations. Larson takes the scripture and ties her blessing of wishes for you for that day to the verses. If it improves your mood to think someone is in your corner and wishing good things for you, I can see where these blessings will help. I am not sure she is implying she actually prays those things for her readers, but I am sure she may.

Although, I can be an emotional person, this type of blessing writing does little for me. I would actually get more out of reading the scriptures than her blessings. Others I am sure would love her blessings as I see many similar statements on Facebook and Pinterest. The photos on each page are beautiful and a wonderful reminder of God’s love for us. Unfortunately, on some pages the type written over certain illustrations is not easy to read.

Every mom is different and you need to discover the things which encourage you on your parenting journey. Although not my cup of tea, this book may be the very thing you need to start your morning or refresh your day of mothering your children. If nothing else, it gives you a great verse of scripture to reflect upon during your day.

 

 

This book was given to me free of charge in exchange for my honest review.

Parent-In-Training

Parent-In-Training - Parenting Like HannahOver the years, I have worked for several companies. In each case, my first days and sometimes weeks of employment involved some sort of training. One of the companies went to great expense, flying us thousands of miles away and housing and feeding us for a week while we completed their training program. Why was it worth thousands of dollars to that company to train us thoroughly? Because they had learned, well-trained employees were much more effective than those who picked it up by the seat-of-their-pants or used their instincts to learn their job.

Ironically, one of the most difficult jobs in the world has no mandatory training. Even Christian parents, whose job of parenting is even more difficult in many ways, may rarely if ever have any parenting training available to them. Yet very few people are concerned. The common train of thought is either “do what your parents did”,  “do the exact opposite of your parents” or my personal favorite “trust your instincts”.

Granted all of those philosophies may have some validity to them at times. Most parents use all three at some point in their parenting. The problem with those philosophies though, is they promote reactive parenting. Reactive parenting comes with a special set of problems:

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Worrying Less So You Can Live More

Worrying Less So You Can Live More - Parenting Like HannahWorrying seems to be a natural part of parenting. Those tiny little bundles of joy appear so fragile. Who wouldn’t worry that something might harm one of the greatest blessings you’ve ever been given?Unfortunately, worrying doesn’t diminish as your child grows older and stronger. There are just different things about which to worry. You name it and I’m sure more than one parent has worried about it at some point.

The problem with worry is it can rob you of your joy and even your health. It can paralyze your parenting and even limit your child’s potential. Most importantly, it can stunt your relationship with God and your own spiritual growth and health.

I was curious to see how the new book, Worry Less So You Can Live More: Surprising, Simple Ways to Feel More Peace, Joy, and Energy by Jane Rubietta handled the subject. I expected the normal Christian self-help laundry list of things to do to conquer worry in your life. Instead, the author suggested various tools to use regularly in your life to move you away from living in a state of constant worry.

Because it was not written in the normal self-help fashion, the book itself seemed calmer. Rubietta shared stories from her own life as well as how she uses these tools in her own life to walk away from worry. Whether it is embracing play, soaking in nature or dancing the salsa, she gives the reader thirteen different tools for tackling worry.

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