New Prayer Resources for Kids and Teens

New Prayer Resources for Kids and Teens - Parenting Like HannahThere is a new Christian film which is opening in a week or two (August 28, 2015 War Room). The underlying theme is prayer, so they are releasing five new books on prayer to support the film. I was given an opportunity to review all of them. I’m still reading the ones for women and men, but wanted to give you my thoughts on the three for children and teens.

Peter’s Perfect Prayer Place by Stephen and Alex Kendrick (illustrated by Daniel Fernandez) is a delightful picture book on prayer for the youngest set. The little boy in the book keeps looking for the perfect place to pray. Of course, no place is just right until he discovers they all are perfect for talking with God. Most picture books on prayer are frankly just not that interesting. This one keeps an engaging story line while teaching an important concept about prayer.

The illustrations are cartoonish, but in a cute way. The back has a prayer journal type area which can be removed from the book. The chart has stickers the child can use to keep track of prayers and their answers. I wish the stickers were a little more clear that “no” and “wait” are answers as well as “yes” and reinforced it with the stickers. I’m afraid too many parents only believe God has answered prayers when he says “yes”. The stickers could unfortunately be used to reinforce the concept. Of the three books for young people though, I would say this is the one I love the most.

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Teaching Kids About “Social” Prayer

Teaching Kids About "Social" Prayer - Parenting Like HannahYes, I just made up a new term. For the purposes of our discussion, social prayer is any opportunity your child is given to pray aloud in public. It could be as simple as praying before a meal or as difficult as praying privately with someone who is going through a devastating time.

Many families ask even the youngest of children to take turns praying before family meals. It is a great way to introduce children to praying and prayer. Don’t worry too much if your introverted child is uncomfortable and doesn’t want to participate. Allow them to pass for the moment, but continue to provide opportunities. Some kids will grow out of their reluctance as they become more comfortable with what to say. Others will need some additional encouragement to try again the next time they are offered a chance to pray. I would caution against making prayer a power game though – the negative consequences are possibly too great to be risked.

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Helping Kids Understand When God Says “No”

Helping Kids Understand When God Says "no" - Parenting Like HannahAs children begin to have independent prayer lives and study the bible, they begin to realize God is not the genie in the sky who must say yes to our every wish. Instead, God sometimes says “no” to us and our kids. Teaching your children how to understand and accept any and every “no” from God may mean the difference in whether or not they ultimately choose to follow Him.

To help your child understand why God is not “granting” a specific wish or desire from your child, there are a few basic principles you will need to repeat many times:

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Teaching Kids to Wait For God

Teaching Kids to wait For God - parenting like hannahOur world is a fast paced world. Kids are exposed to rapidly changing technology, images and an over scheduled lifestyle. It’s no wonder when God tells them to wait for something, they become impatient. Why not help God a bit? After all, surely God wants your children to have everything they want. Since He’s obviously busy, your kids can just start pushing things in the direction they are sure God would want – towards their desire.

Unfortunately, this line of thinking and action rarely ends well. You only have to remember the Abraham, Sarah and Hagar triangle to see what a mess rushing God can create. Not only did the three of them suffer all sorts of consequences for trying to rush God, but the repercussions continued for many generations and some would argue even until today.

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Praying For Your Son

Praying For Your Son - Parenting Like HannahNormally, I am not a huge fan of scripted prayers. I know the Holy Spirit provides the words I may not have and I tend to trust the process of prayer. Sometimes though, I believe parents want to feel more organized in their prayers. Even though they may firmly believe the Holy Spirit is providing words, on some level they want to be able to think clearly about what concerns them.

Rob & Joanna Tiegen have already published a book of prayers for daughters. Their latest A Mom’s Prayers for Her Son: Praying for Every Part of His Life is a parent’s companion for understanding how to best pray for her son. The book contains seventy-seven prayers covering a wide range of subjects.

Within each prayer, the authors give several verses of scripture they believe address the topic. The prayer is written as much as a way to direct a parent’s thinking as it is to help the parent pray. While not “preachy”, the prayers do make a point of teaching parents how the authors believe God would want them to address certain topics.

Perhaps the most encouraging parts of the book are the personal stories of various mothers and sons. Many are written by mothers whose sons struggled very badly in one or more areas. The accounts are honest about the struggles and the prayers. I especially appreciated the fact that the authors of each of the accounts made it clear God does not always supply an immediate “yes” to our prayers. They often shared that sometimes it may take years for us to see the “yes” God provided.

I don’t have a son, but if I did, I think I would find this book helpful and encouraging. If nothing else, it helps you understand your son is not the only one struggling with some of these issues. Whether you read this book or not, I hope you are encouraged to pray often and specifically for your son. It can make an enormous difference in his life.

 

 

A copy of this book was provided to me for free in exchange for my honest review. I do not have a son, but plan to share this book with a friend who does.