When Fear Mothers Your Children

When Fear Mothers Your Children - Parenting Like HannahThere are a lot of things about being a mom, especially a first time mom, that can cause even the bravest woman to be fearful. Most of us spend a lot of time in prayer and get advice from more experienced godly mothers to help us on our journey. For some moms though, the fear and anxiety can become too powerful. They can become a mother who is constantly anxious and hovers over her children in constant fear and panic.

If you had previous traumatic experiences in your life, an extra amount of fear and anxiety is to be expected. That’s what happened to Susie Davis. When she was in middle school in the late 1970’s a classmate walked into her classroom and shot and killed the teacher right in front of her. To make matters even worse, he lived a few doors away from her house and never served time for the crime because he was ruled mentally ill.

Unafraid: Trusting God in an Unsafe World, is the story of how this traumatic event turned a godly teen into a woman whose fear became debilitating. More than that though, it is the story of how God worked in her life to turn her fear into the godly confidence she has now. Davis weaves her personal story throughout the book as she shares the lessons she learned on her journey.

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Tips for Raising a Humble Child

Tips For Raising a Humble Child - Parenting Like HannahHaughty is a great word. You can almost picture a person with an aristocratic nose stuck high in the air. I have to admit, sometimes haughty people amuse me. Donald Trump is one of my favorites. Everything he has is always the best and he is always the smartest person he knows. Most of the time I am looking at whatever he is so prideful of and thinking “That is the most hideous thing I have ever seen.” Yet, he persists in thinking everyone is envious of him.

In Raising a Humble Child, the Donald Trumps of the world have consequences of which they probably aren’t even aware. Frankly, I suspect the arrogant Donald Trump is in some ways a character he plays. On the other hand, he does have a path of broken marriages and bankruptcies in his past. Most of the time arrogant people don’t do nearly as well in life as they could have had they been humble. Their arrogance keeps them from learning from others wiser than them. Especially God.

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Raising a Humble Child

Raising a Humble Child - Parenting Like HannahNothing can be cuter than two or three year olds absolutely insisting they know something is right when they have it entirely confused. It doesn’t matter how much evidence you provide that they are wrong, this child (not yours or mine of course) will stubbornly stick to the original statement. Most parents eventually shrug it off and figure over time the child will learn he is incorrect and will change his mind.

Unfortunately, many children never outgrow this habit. They read something somewhere or hear it from someone they admire or sometimes just figure something out independently. No matter what evidence you provide to the contrary, they will not even consider another viewpoint. Throw in a bit of adolescent indestructibility with a dash of “old people are stupid” and you have a recipe for arrogance and pride.

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What Key Lime Lemonade Taught Me About Parenting

What Key Lime Lemonade Taught Me About Parenting - Parenting Like HannahA few weeks ago my favorite deli was testing key lime lemonade. The first time I saw the sign, I had already ordered an iced tea. The next time, I noticed the sign, but wasn’t sure I wanted the calories, so decided to wait until my next visit to splurge. You guessed it. The next time I went in it was gone. I was really disappointed. I am a key lime fan and loved the idea. It was only a test product though and I may never again get the chance to taste that key lime lemonade.

Parenting is a lot like that. There are some opportunities you are given with your child that are one shot deals. You miss your window and the opportunity is gone. The problem is that we usually don’t realize it at the time and pass on the chance figuring it will come again at a more convenient time.

Sometimes those opportunities are an invitation from God to take you on exciting journey serving Him. When our daughter was not quite three years old, we took a family trip to Cancun. Mexico. We had friends who were missionaries on a nearby island. My husband didn’t feel well, but encouraged me to take our daughter to go visit and encourage them since we were so close.

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What Peach Milkshakes Taught Me About Parenting

What Peach Milkshakes Taught Me About Parenting - Parenting Like HannahThere aren’t many foods that I will go out of my way to find and eat. One of them is the Chick Fil A peach milkshake. It’s creamy goodness is enhanced by huge chunks of fresh peaches. I enjoy them so much I limit myself to only two a season to keep me from living on a diet of peach milkshakes for several weeks each year.

The thing about peach milkshakes is they are only available during the height of peach season. Some years the peaches ripen early and I can grab my first shake in May or June. Other years there is a bumper crop and peach milkshakes are still around in September. In bad years, the peach milkshake season can come and go in just a few weeks. Because I limit myself to only two shakes, I plan them carefully. Sometimes I get distracted and pull up for my first peach dream in August when they are already gone for the year. I always cry out, “I thought I had more time before they were gone!”

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