Teaching Kids and Teens How to Stand Up for What’s Right

Teaching Kids and Teens How to Stand Up For What's Right - Parenting Like HannahRecently I read about a very disturbing study. A group of people were asked what they would do if they witnessed someone making a racist joke, taunting someone or displaying overt racism in some way. Almost to a person, everyone said they would speak up for what was right.

Unbeknownst to the subjects of the study, it didn’t stop there. The group conducting the study then set up situations in the real life world of each subject. Each situation allowed the subject to witness a scene similar to one they had been told about previously.

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The Christian Mom Planning Fallacy

The Christian Mom Planning Fallacy - Parenting Like HannahIt happens to us all. We think we are doing something routine like grocery shopping. On a good day I can get in and out of the grocery store in a few minutes. It never fails though. If my day is packed with so much I have little wiggle room, I will run into everyone I haven’t seen for years in the store. And they want to talk. A lot. About everything that has happened in the five years since I last saw them.

Now while I am normally a friendly talker, when my thirty minute grocery store run takes twice as long on a day when I have no free time, I get stressed. Something has to be dropped or shortened in order to complete the day. What gets cut?

For many of us, the first thing that goes is our quiet time, our prayer time or our Bible reading for the day. If you have kids and have tried to do family devos, you probably know exactly what I mean. You can generally make it for a few days and then life goes crazy and the devos get dropped.

Strangely, science has studied this phenomenon (okay not the devo part). They found just about everyone has accepted a planning fallacy – that they can accurately predict how long it will take to complete a certain task. What they found is basically everyone underestimates how long a task will take – often by quite a large margin.

Since God is often what gets pushed off of our plates when we run short on time, how can we compensate for the planning fallacy and put Him back in our lives and the lives of our children?

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Memories Service Project for Teens

Memories Service Project for Teens - Parenting Like HannahEveryone has a story. Most stories are richer and more fascinating than we can ever imagine. I will never forget talking to a 90 something year old lady at church one day and discovering she had been in the Palace of the Shah of Iran and had tea with him and his family. This sweet little old lady in Georgia had taken tea with a historical figure in another country? If I remember correctly, she even gave him some godly advice while she was there!

Unfortunately, most people’s stories are lost. Either they don’t think anyone would care or they are forgotten or the memories die with the person. Sadly, many of the people who think their lives have no value would be shocked to learn how much the choices they made and the experiences they had can change how others choose to live their lives.

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Service Project for Kids to Help the Homeless, Foster Children and More

Service Project for Kids to Help the Homeless, Foster Children and More - Parenting Like HannahOften, it’s the simplest things which help people the most. Years of working with people in countries with unclean tap water, homeless people in the U.S. and even foster children as they move from home to home, have taught me personal care items are an urgent need in many places.

It shocked me to learn the number of diseases and deaths which could be prevented in many countries if the people had easy access to soap. Children moved into foster care often arrive with little more than the clothes on their back to homes who may have only realized they were coming a few hours before. The homeless in this country are often afraid to go to shelters where they could make use of bathing facilities and do the best they can in public restrooms.

The solution is as simple or as complicated as you want to make it and is perfectly suited to be a service project for young children to teens. Buy clear bags from a craft store or use large zipper bags. (Clear will make sure the people you are serving don’t have to worry about customs or others opening the bags.) Fill them with personal care items.Bagging the items so each bag serves one person makes it so much easier for the people you are serving to hand them out to those who need them.

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Encouragement for Christian Moms

Encouragement for Christian MomsIf you have been a mom for very long, you understand it is one of the greatest blessings God can give you. That doesn’t mean life is perfect. You wouldn’t trade those little (or big) bundles of joy for anything, but there are some days when you want to jump on the nearest airplane to Hawaii.

Mothering can discourage you in ways nothing else can. Especially if you realize the enormous responsibility that accompanies the amazing blessing of raising children. Discouragement, loneliness and the mom blues can often pass on their own with something as simple as a dandelion and hug from your little one.

Other times, you need some adult encouragement. Hopefully, you are working on building your support team of Christian moms. On those days when you can’t tap into a personal conversation, reading a book of encouragement can help. Some moms prefer parenting books while others prefer devotional books.

I was curious when I was offered the opportunity to review Blessings for the Morning: Prayerful Encouragement to Begin Your Day by Susie Larson. Billed as a book of blessings, it contains ninety-eight different entries. Each entry has a scripture printed on one page and her blessing for the day on the facing page. Although not specifically written for moms, the blessings definitely cover areas which would encourage any woman whether or not she is a mother.

The blessings read like affirmations. Larson takes the scripture and ties her blessing of wishes for you for that day to the verses. If it improves your mood to think someone is in your corner and wishing good things for you, I can see where these blessings will help. I am not sure she is implying she actually prays those things for her readers, but I am sure she may.

Although, I can be an emotional person, this type of blessing writing does little for me. I would actually get more out of reading the scriptures than her blessings. Others I am sure would love her blessings as I see many similar statements on Facebook and Pinterest. The photos on each page are beautiful and a wonderful reminder of God’s love for us. Unfortunately, on some pages the type written over certain illustrations is not easy to read.

Every mom is different and you need to discover the things which encourage you on your parenting journey. Although not my cup of tea, this book may be the very thing you need to start your morning or refresh your day of mothering your children. If nothing else, it gives you a great verse of scripture to reflect upon during your day.

 

 

This book was given to me free of charge in exchange for my honest review.